For many years, “survival” was my main goal. Surviving homelessness, foster care, and generational trauma felt like success enough. But there’s a profound difference between merely surviving and truly thriving. My life is a testament to the fact that you can move beyond simply getting by and step into a life of purpose, achievement, and genuine fulfillment, regardless of your starting point.
So, how do you redefine success when your past has dictated so much?
First, challenge your own definitions of success. Often, we unconsciously adopt societal or familial definitions that don’t truly serve us. For me, buying my first home wasn’t just about property; it was about demonstrating to myself that I could create stability and break patterns. What does “thriving” look like for you? Is it financial freedom, inner peace, creative expression, or meaningful relationships?
Next, shift your focus from “what happened to me” to “what can I make happen.” This isn’t about denying your past, but about using it as a springboard, not an anchor. My Executive MBA wasn’t just a degree; it was a commitment to continuous growth and leadership. Every obstacle I’ve faced has fueled a deeper understanding of resilience and possibility.
Finally, embrace the journey of continuous growth. Success isn’t a destination; it’s an ongoing evolution. It means constantly challenging yourself, learning, and adapting. It’s about consciously choosing to level up, even when it feels uncomfortable. This isn’t just coaching—it’s transformation from someone who’s walked the hard road and came out winning.
You’ve survived. Now, are you ready to thrive? My life isn’t just a story of overcoming—it’s a testament to the fact that greatness truly is within you, waiting to be unleashed. What’s one step you can take today to move beyond survival and towards the thriving life you deserve?
More Than Survival: Redefining Success Beyond Your Circumstances
